Watched Bedazzled today…
Never knew there was a song like this… nice, simple lyrics which would make a lotta sense for people who want a change.
- Change your mind
Hey, Hey
Did you ever think
There might be another way
To just feel better,
Just feel better about today
Oh no-
If you never want to have
To turn and go away
You might feel better,
Might feel better if you stay
[Pre-chorus]
Yeah yeah
I bet you haven’t heard
A word I’ve said
Yeah yeah
If you’ve had enough
Of all your tryin’
Just give up
The state of mind you’re in:
[Chorus]
If you want to be somebody else,
If you’re tired of fighting battles with yourself
If you want to be somebody else
Change your mind…
Hey hey-
Have you ever danced in the rain
Or thanked the sun
Just for shining- just for shining
Or the sea?
Oh no- take it all in
The world’s a show
And yeah, you look much better,
Look much better when you glow
[Pre-chorus/chorus]
Hey hey-
what ya say
We both go and seize the day
‘cause what’s your hurry
what’s your hurry anyway
Have said these to friends whenever in conundrum, before….its always easier said than done. Especially for peeps who are watching from the side and watching the whole chaos…its not so easy to detach and take a look at something from afar and say what needs to change. Sometimes, its easier to just close one eye and go with the flow.
There comes a time when blindly Supporting someone whom you know is messing something up, can get very tiring. Most of us will still do it, cos we wholeheartedly believe its what friends do. I learnt it the hard way. And now there are very few I keep close to me… cos they are the ones who’d do for me what most people wont.
A real friend will sit you down, say what went wrong and make suggestions. Then they will sit there, face your denial, fury and condemnation, argue back with you, wait for you to cool down, argue with you again and then stick around to be friends with you again.
